Weekly Ask Me Anything Series: Balancing Originality and Reader Expectations

As part of my ongoing Ask Me Anything, I’m working my way through a short list of questions found on a website. Have a question? Ask. I’ll answer. Want to know something in general or about me specifically, I’m an open book.

Do you try more to be original or to deliver to readers what they want?

Both.

No really.

So far, I have something like 12 series, between my two names. With more in the planning, but that’s not the point. One series should be read in order. The rest of my work, or nearly all of it, are series that any book can be read as a stand alone. Sure, it’s a better experience if you read it in order, but you don’t have to in order to understand what’s going on. Also, I often, at least among similar sub-genre’s will tie the series together, at least a little. For example, The Savage Warriors is a spin off series of Demented Souls. Same thing for Kings of Destruction. We were introed to the Kings in Ghost’s book in Demented Souls.

The same thing for my Harley books. The first Sons of Sin heroine is someone tied to the Fallen Angels club.

How do you like to read? Stand alones or series?


Weekly Ask Me Anything: Writer’s Common Pitfalls

As part of my ongoing Ask Me Anything, I’m working my way through a short list of questions found on a website. Have a question? Ask. I’ll answer. Want to know something in general or about me specifically, I’m an open book.

What are common traps for aspiring writers?

I’m going to give you two here. There are more but to me, these are the biggest ones.

Overthinking / perfectionism.

I’m a firm believer in there’s no such thing as perfect. I can only get things as best I can and that will have to be good enough. I believe too many people who say they want to write get hung up in the belief that it has to be ‘perfect’ and that keeps them from even starting, or puts them in an endless cycle of editing that keeps them from going anywhere.

You have to give yourself permission to write badly. Badly written can be fixed. Blank pages are much harder.

Inner Editor

That’s the voice in the back of your head that tells you that what you’re writing/building/whatever is not good enough, it’s stupid, no one will ever read/like it.

Lock that bitch up. She’s wrong. Like ALWAYS. You are your own worst critic and she’s creation of your mind. It seems dumb, but one thing that actually helps is to find an image (proprietary images are fine, this is for personal use, you’re not selling it anywhere) whether in a magazine, book, or online that you print out. But take that physical image and lock it up. Put it in a toolbox or a cash box or even a jewelry box and lock it up. Or depending on how dark you want to go, torch it. Lay the picture on the grill, light it up and watch it burn.

It’s shockingly freeing.


Weekly Ask Me Anything Series: First Book to Make You Cry?

I’ve decided to start a new post series. It’s going to be a weekly post with a single Ask Me Anything question. I’ll start in the beginning with questions found on a website to ask authors, but leave comments with your own questions and I’ll get to them.

What is the first book that made you cry?

I’m going to answer this. But there’s something you need to understand first.

In the last few years I’ve come to realize I’m neurodivergent. I have no diagnosis, and I don’t plan to get one, but knowing makes a difference. It helped me to understand that I’m not some broken horse, I’m a zebra. That said, because of said neurospicy brain, I don’t emote the same as ‘normal’ people. It’s far easier to make me mad-cry than sad-cry.

That said, the first book I remember sad-crying about was The Enchanted Land by Jude Deveraux. I was 12 or 13. I’ve read that book since and yeah, it’s got parts that are very sad, but it has never evoked the same response. Very few do. Still, that it did sticks in my mind.

What was yours?


Fourteen years

Fourteen years ago I published my first book. Change.

A lot has changed since then. So much.

Then, I had 3 kids, ranging from 5 to 11. I wrote slowly, but I was finding my niche.

Now, I have 4 kids, ranging from 19 to 25 (yes, we acquired another in there, she’s 2 months younger than our oldest). I write much faster in fact, I wrote 8 books last year alone. Last week my 80th title was published. On top of that I that, I’m planning at least 7 more this year. I have written more than 3 million words for publication. Three million. That number just boggles my mind, but at the same time fills me with satisfaction.

Life itself has changed. Instead of my schedule being set by chasing kids and getting them to school, sports and whatever, I’m setting my schedule around writing and the old man’s schedule. Though I’m hoping he’ll retire soon then we can do some travelling.

The best part about what I do and wanting to travel? I can sit down with a laptop or tablet and keyboard and write anywhere! He want’s to fish, go ahead. I’ll sit back and get some words in!

I’m well aware that what I write isn’t for everyone. That’s okay. That’s the beauty of the world of books. There is something for everyone, no matter what they like to read.

As for what’s to come? Keep coming back, because I have no intention of stopping writing!


I Breathe In

I breathe in, I breathe out
You tell me that you’re being deployed
I try not to cry as I ask when you leave.
We smile to you as we wave good bye
Hoping you don’t see the tears in our eyes.

I breathe in, I breathe out
I wake up alone, your pillow cold next to mine
And I wonder if you slept last night.
I fold the laundry, and pack lunches
I send the kids off to school

I breathe in, I breathe out,
I shovel the snow from our drive,
And worry if you’re warm enough.
I write the checks and pay the bills,
I clean the house and fix the drain

I breathe in, I breathe out,
I feed the cat and walk the dog
I wonder just where you’re at.
I lay down in our lonely bed,
And pray I’ll get to see you again

I breathe in, I breathe out,
You’re my first thought as I wake,
And the last before I sleep
I take out the trash,
And repair kid’s bikes

I breathe in, I breathe out
I back a box to ship to you,
Pictures, letters and bits of our life.
I plan the parties and things you’ll miss
And wonder when you’ll come home to us.

I breathe in, I breathe out.
I keep the TV on all night,
But I can’t stand to watch the news
I can’t stop myself from worrying
That’s you may never come home

I breathe in, I breathe out,
The seasons change, the days go by
The kids get older, with you here with us.
Swimming lessons, little league, soccer practice
The things you sacrifice to protect our freedom

I breathe in, I breathe out
The flight is scheduled we have date and time,
We make the trip. We’re standing there when you land.
I hold my breath and wait impatiently
I can’t believe it’s true til I see you with my eyes

I breathe in, I breathe out
There you are, dressed in your uniform
This time I can’t keep the tears off my face
I wait my turn as you hug and hold the kids
Then I hold you tight and thank God you’re home

I breathe in, I breathe out,
I take a deep breath and try not to cry
I swear to make the most of every day
I know this will happen again,
I never know if this time you won’t return.


The Hollows / Rachel Morgan by Kim Harrison

I read several of these years ago when they were first coming out and I enjoyed them… I waited as a couple more came out and read them when they did, then life got in the way. I had other things going on, other books, kids, you know how it is.

Then I started writing.

I don’t have nearly as much time to read as I did before I was writing.

But over the last couple of weeks, I’ve spent a good chunk of time in the car as I got the old man ready for deployment, so I borrowed the entire Hollows series from my library and listened to it. All the way through, even the one that just came out this year.

I still love them. I still love the characters, the storylines and the imagery. I still miss Kisten and laugh out loud over Jenks. There are moments I want to pull Al into a hug and tell him it will be okay. There are moments I want to smack Trent and tell him he’s come a long way but there are some things he still needs to fix about himself.

Do I recommend the series? Yes. 100%. Go read them. They are amazing.


New Release ~ Cool Off

I joined an anthology recently, and it’s hit the stores! Right now it’s available everywhere, but soon it will go into Kindle Unlimited, but it’s only going to stay there for a limited time before it’s gone forever, so get your copies now!

Maybe you shouldn’t stare at a deliciously handsome man when he walks by you on the beach… but it’s a vacation, and summer. Doesn’t hurt that you’re single and available.

This anthology is guaranteed to keep you laughing, smiling, and wish you were on the beach enjoying the view. We won’t blame you if you want to binge all the stories because of the sultry plots and sexy heroes. Some wear trunks and other speedos… no judgments.

Authors Include:

Ashley Zakrzewski – USA Today & International Best Selling Author
Amy Stephens – USA Today & International Best Selling Author
Debra Elise – USA Today Bestseller
Tracy Broemmer
Jaycee Wolfe
Poppy Parkes
Pandora Snow
Layla Delaney
Barb Shuler
Chelle Rose
Melissa Stevens


What I’ve been reading ~ Overcome

I recently went to work from home, so my ‘reading’ aka audiobook time has been dramatically cut (but hey, it’s meant way more time for writing) but I made a trip over the weekend where I got in a couple books (I listen at 2.5x speed, so they go faster) The best one was Overcome by Lora Leigh.

This is actually three novellas in the Breed series. I had read all three before but the audio versions added a depth to the stories that hadn’t been there before. I really enjoyed them. If you get a chance, pick it up!


What I’ve been reading ~ Empire of the Summer Sun.

The full title of this is Empire of the Summer Sun, Quanah Parker and the Rise and Fall of the Comanche Nation.

I borrowed this from my local library on a whim. I was looking for some thing new to listen to on the way back and forth to work and this caught my eye.

That said, I loved it.

A lot of the verbiage was dated to the era of the person who’s words were being used, often from the early to mid-nineteenth century. But the story was amazing and very informative.

I’ve always been into history and this was one I enjoyed.


What I’ve been reading ~ Ice Planet Barbarians

As I drive back and forth to work, I listen to audio books from the library. I decided recently to start sharing with you what I’ve been reading and what I think of it.
This week I ‘read’ Ice Planet Barbarians by Ruby Dixon.
My rating is 3 out of 5.
It was a decent story, though much of it was very far fetched (but let’s face it, it’s an alien smut romance, I never expected it to be believable.)
So suspension of disbelief aside, Ice Planet Barbarians was enjoyable but not a can’t put it down romance. It’s the start of a series that I don’t feel driven to read the next book of. In my opinion, it’s one of the major things that keep it from being rated better. It’s just not gripping enough to keep me reading once I’ve finished this story.

Stay tuned for the next installment.